Hi, I’m Francesca (she/her/they 🏳️‍🌈)! I’m looking for more partners; I’m glad you’re here! If you think we might be a good match, I’d love to hear from you: please fill in this form.

<aside> 💡 This is weird: I dislike writing about myself, and my primary partner was excited to draft this for me, so this doc mostly describes me through his eyes. I’ve added comments where I would characterize myself differently. This document carried the prose of my primary partner moreso than my own voice.

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Testimonials

I <3 Francesca, she’s awesome, and I feel super lucky to be her friend and partner!

• The guy who wrote this dating doc

Burning Man, Mudpocalypse edition

Burning Man, Mudpocalypse edition

Who I am

• 🌉 San Francisco & Oakland-based
• 🐣 In my early 30’s
• 🏳️‍🌈 Bi: I think I’d like to date all genders, but thus far I’ve only dated men. I’m open to more! 😉
• 🎨 Crafty: I love creating things (I draw professionally as a digital illustrator), make cool hats (like my persimmon-shaped hat), fish backpacks, and so much more!
• 🤪 Goofy: I enjoy being playful and uninhibited (with people I know well). I start out quite shy, however.
• 🤫 Introverted: I’m not excited about being in big groups, especially with strangers, and it takes me a while to recharge from social situations. As a result, sometimes people who are just meeting me might see me as a bit colder… but once I get to know people I can be fun and goofy (see above!).
• 🔐 A private person: I am an open book. But I am also the kind of person who won’t put that contents of that book on social media, or share personal details with others unless its on a need-to-know basis. I value my privacy and don’t often share things with strangers.
• 🫂 Caring: my friends know me as being extremely empathetic, and go out of my way to help others - maybe even to a fault!
• 🍣 Foodie: I love trying new foods, even though I’m a vampire-white American - when I travel, I’ll try almost anything once. Some of my favorites are jjajangmyeon, raw fish or poke (e.g. from Foodland), and mentaiko bowls. Let’s go on food adventures!
• ✈️ Adventurous: I said “yes” to packing up everything and nomading in 2020, and also went on a 2 week adventure diving through the Galapagos and exploring other parts of South America last year. Burning Man is kind of my vibe too. I like doing this with other people, but it will take me a while to build up the trust to do this with you!
• 🤼 Addicted to Brazilian Jiu Jitsu: I know I go 6 times a week, but it’s not a problem, I swear. Just one more hit. 🥺
• 👪 Poly-ish: I’ve started experimenting with having multiple partners, and I’ve enjoyed it so far! I’m a kind of hierarchical solo-poly type - I have a primary partner I live with, and date alone (as much as he might like to date you too 😜).

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